The line between great suffering and agitation, and the state of joy and peace, is quite thin. I would like to propose that peace and suffering are a result of one thing...
Willingness.
In the days that have followed Charlie Kirk's tragic murder, I have noticed that the words 'debate' and 'dialogue' have been used interchangeably as if there is no distinction between the two words. Debate and dialogue could not be more different, however. The implications of the two terms are quite significant.
Here is an interesting paradox that I've observed in life, however. The people who most often avoid conflict have the most conflict, yet the people who have learned how to peacefully and actively embrace conflict have the least of it.
The coaching container is made up of a fundamental energetic structure that allows information and life energies to be contained and transmitted in a consistent, safe. and manageable way over time for the purpose of healing and liberation. Without this structural container, the transformation process cannot unfold and the knowledge cannot become integrated beyond a mental conceptual nature.
In order for the masculine and feminine to commune (communicate) in a romantic / sexual relationship with one another, the masculine and feminine must be in communion together within yourself. Sex is a powerful metaphor of this inner energetic union. We all, (regardless of our body gender), are made up of masculine and feminine energetic essence.
I have lost track of just how many times I have heard (all in) clients tell me that they received much more impact from the first few weeks of my individual coaching program than they had gained after many years of traditional therapy.
This is because the path that I offer requires people to invest significantly into themselves. I require my individual clients to invest into themselves just as much as I invest into them.
This means 100% total involvement. Because where much is given, much is required...and where much is required and given, much is received.